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The Lounge Seesaw swingin' with the boys in the Chat and your feet flyin' up in the air Apr 13 2012
15:44 (UTC)
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Original Post by kelrantymus:

Original Post by tblover900:

Original Post by sharpshootinstar:

And you did nothing wrong :)

Can I still be flogged, though?

and after the spanking...the oral sex!

 

too much??


Never. I used that line in Chat last week and actully said that same thing, TB. ;)

Morning, all! *scrounges for leftover monkey bread*

Morning, Kel.

The Lounge Seesaw swingin' with the boys in the Chat and your feet flyin' up in the air Apr 13 2012
15:29 (UTC)
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Original Post by lilsammi23:

Original Post by stevis78:

Original Post by sharpshootinstar:

I'm the one who asked Steve to elaborate. 

...can I be flogged??? Please??

No no no.  You asked for elaboration, and I chose to provide it, knowing it could get ugly (but hoping it wouldn't).  It's not your fault.  

Look, I'm not being quite fair to you, but I'm at least going to explain part of why.

Do you know anybody who's had a really serious battle with anorexia?  I do.  What you said made me think of her when we didn't know if she was going to get better.  It made me want to punch you because it's the same effing type of thing she used to think about herself.

Karen Carpenter is most well known for dying from anorexia these days.  She just is.  Had you picked a different example, I probably wouldn't have been mad and would have just called you out for claiming to know what all guys think.  You know, the usual thing.

I'm sorry that you had no idea what you were walking into there, but I don't think it was an appropriate thing to say either way.

I appreciate you laying that out there.  And I'm sorry for bringing out something that hit so close to home for you.  

I would never go after someone for a disorder, and didn't intend to do so with Karen Carpenter.  

The Lounge Seesaw swingin' with the boys in the Chat and your feet flyin' up in the air Apr 13 2012
15:20 (UTC)
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Original Post by barbarjinx:

Original Post by stevis78:

Original Post by barbarjinx:

Original Post by stevis78:

It's funny.  I've lived in Florida my whole life, and have never been to the Keys.  I want to ride my bike down there, one end to the other, four days.

That would be an awesome bike trip!

I've seen Youtube video of a couple of guys who made the trip.  Couldn't quit watching.

The only think that might freak me out is being on the 7-mile bridge on a bike.  Awesome, yet a bit scary.

That's the one part I'm not looking forward to.  That's a long time with nowhere to go and traffic too close.  

The Lounge Seesaw swingin' with the boys in the Chat and your feet flyin' up in the air Apr 13 2012
15:16 (UTC)
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Original Post by tblover900:

Original Post by barbarjinx:

Original Post by stevis78:

It's funny.  I've lived in Florida my whole life, and have never been to the Keys.  I want to ride my bike down there, one end to the other, four days.

That would be an awesome bike trip!

sounds too hot and humid for me.

I'm thinking early March or sometime in early November would be just right.  Not too hot, comfortable at night, and not too many tourists.

The Lounge Seesaw swingin' with the boys in the Chat and your feet flyin' up in the air Apr 13 2012
15:15 (UTC)
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Original Post by barbarjinx:

Original Post by stevis78:

It's funny.  I've lived in Florida my whole life, and have never been to the Keys.  I want to ride my bike down there, one end to the other, four days.

That would be an awesome bike trip!

I've seen Youtube video of a couple of guys who made the trip.  Couldn't quit watching.

The Lounge Seesaw swingin' with the boys in the Chat and your feet flyin' up in the air Apr 13 2012
15:09 (UTC)
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It's funny.  I've lived in Florida my whole life, and have never been to the Keys.  I want to ride my bike down there, one end to the other, four days.

The Lounge Seesaw swingin' with the boys in the Chat and your feet flyin' up in the air Apr 13 2012
15:05 (UTC)
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Original Post by sharpshootinstar:

And you did nothing wrong :)

Can I still be flogged, though?

Well.......OK.

The Lounge Seesaw swingin' with the boys in the Chat and your feet flyin' up in the air Apr 13 2012
15:02 (UTC)
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Original Post by sharpshootinstar:

I'm the one who asked Steve to elaborate. 

...can I be flogged??? Please??

No no no.  You asked for elaboration, and I chose to provide it, knowing it could get ugly (but hoping it wouldn't).  It's not your fault.  

The Lounge Seesaw swingin' with the boys in the Chat and your feet flyin' up in the air Apr 13 2012
14:57 (UTC)
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Original Post by kathygator:

I think Steve was simply saying that in his experience the dudes he knows have unrealistic ideals about feminine beauty. I think he used Karen Carpenter as a way to illustrate the ridiculousness of their ideal.

I wouldn't doubt there are plenty of beautiful women in New York, I think what I was trying to point out is the prevalence of blond, tanned bikini model types.

Exactly.  It is a ridiculous expectation.  And I often shake my head at the absurdity of some guys around me, especially those I attend classes with who really aren't the most worldly sorts.

The Lounge Seesaw swingin' with the boys in the Chat and your feet flyin' up in the air Apr 13 2012
14:55 (UTC)
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Original Post by thesuperbex:

hey hey! noooo no.  I don't think steve's intent was ever to upset.  weight is a touchy subject... but none of it was intended personally. 

*pokes belly* 

I really don't care.. because as far as girls go, I know I'm awesome, and you all should know you're awesome too!  :)

I appreciate that, Bex.  I didn't want to upset anyone.  I could have used any number of examples, but Karen Carpenter just came to mind first, not because of her disease, but because she was universally known for her low weight.  

The Lounge Seesaw swingin' with the boys in the Chat and your feet flyin' up in the air Apr 13 2012
14:53 (UTC)
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Original Post by kathygator:

Original Post by stevis78:

Original Post by lilsammi23:

Original Post by stevis78:

I've never, ever, heard any guys rag on a girl who was too skinny.  If a girl is over a buck-fifty, though, Katie bar the freaking door!  But in Florida, image is everything.  


You've really never heard this?  I have...  beanpole, chicken legs, no-azz, broomstick...  You've never heard a guy use these things to describe a skinny girl?  Or you don't think they constitute "ragging on"?

Nope, never heard those terms.  Not since 5th grade, anyway.  

Yeah. The chicks Steve and his buddies see rarely look overly thin, if I had to guess.

It's all a matter of perspective, and he's right, we have a very high percentage of knock-outs down here, same as there is in LA, probably.

That's exactly it.

The Lounge Seesaw swingin' with the boys in the Chat and your feet flyin' up in the air Apr 13 2012
14:46 (UTC)
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Original Post by tblover900:

Original Post by starlitocean:

1) i don't know a single guy who wants someone as skinny as karen carpenter (who suffered and died from an ED) was...

2) not all guys like tall girls.  just putting that out there (and i'm a tall girl).

3) everyone has different types.  honestly, chat's kinda making me all angry-like, so i may come back later.

my comments were lighthearted and not to be taken too seriously.

Same here.  I'm just an observer of life and sharing my thoughts. 

The Lounge Seesaw swingin' with the boys in the Chat and your feet flyin' up in the air Apr 13 2012
14:42 (UTC)
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Original Post by lilsammi23:

Original Post by stevis78:

I've never, ever, heard any guys rag on a girl who was too skinny.  If a girl is over a buck-fifty, though, Katie bar the freaking door!  But in Florida, image is everything.  


You've really never heard this?  I have...  beanpole, chicken legs, no-azz, broomstick...  You've never heard a guy use these things to describe a skinny girl?  Or you don't think they constitute "ragging on"?

Nope, never heard those terms.  Not since 5th grade, anyway.  

The Lounge Seesaw swingin' with the boys in the Chat and your feet flyin' up in the air Apr 13 2012
14:41 (UTC)
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Original Post by thesuperbex:

d'awwww thanks steve.

 

aaaaaaaaaaand well eff.. I'm headed to florida tomorrow and I am a buck fifty and a ten and a five? HAHAHHAAHA. Good news is it's mostly retired folks.  Pretty sure young and "puffy" trumps old and saggy.  Sanibel Island here I come!

 

You're welcome, Bex.

Maybe I'm exaggerating about the 150 number.  Nobody will talk badly about you.

Have fun.  It's a nice area down there.

The Lounge Seesaw swingin' with the boys in the Chat and your feet flyin' up in the air Apr 13 2012
14:38 (UTC)
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Original Post by lilsammi23:

Original Post by stevis78:

Original Post by thesuperbex:

I dunno steve.. all the guys I  know like T & A.. you generally don't find that on stick thin girls.  I ALSO just learned that guys care what your face looks like.  This is news to me.. and made me happy.. because sometimes I think I'm pretty. 

 

 

not today.  *hangs head*

What guys really want is Karen Carpenter with Pam Anderson's boobs, J-Lo's ass, and Liv Tyler's face.  But, that animal just doesn't exist.  So guys have to choose.

And you are pretty.  


Ummm... I think you're a little confused on what most guys want...  Either that or all of the guys I know lie to each other about it.

I can't be that confused.  I am a guy, after all.  

And yes, guys tell stories all the time.

The Lounge Seesaw swingin' with the boys in the Chat and your feet flyin' up in the air Apr 13 2012
14:33 (UTC)
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Original Post by sharpshootinstar:

Huh. I thought FL was more of a happy go lucky kinda place.  Just with gators and oranges.

Nah, that's just what the Chamber of Commerce wants you to believe.  

The Lounge Seesaw swingin' with the boys in the Chat and your feet flyin' up in the air Apr 13 2012
14:28 (UTC)
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Original Post by dnrothx:

Original Post by stevis78:

Original Post by tblover900:

Original Post by stevis78:

Original Post by sharpshootinstar:

Howdy Tb, Deb!

Steve, what do you mean by stigma?

Society sees skinny women as something to be admired, therefore I believe they're more catered towards in terms of clothing.

agreed.

 

but i think tall curvy girls have carved out a niche. After all, we are preferred by men.

*loves being an hourglass*

That's for sure.  Most guys I know, the skinnier, the better.  I like a little chunky, but that's me.

I don't know about that.  Most guys I know are a little weirded out by the skin-hung-on-skeleton look.

I've never, ever, heard any guys rag on a girl who was too skinny.  If a girl is over a buck-fifty, though, Katie bar the freaking door!  But in Florida, image is everything.  

The Lounge Seesaw swingin' with the boys in the Chat and your feet flyin' up in the air Apr 13 2012
14:26 (UTC)
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Original Post by thesuperbex:

I dunno steve.. all the guys I  know like T & A.. you generally don't find that on stick thin girls.  I ALSO just learned that guys care what your face looks like.  This is news to me.. and made me happy.. because sometimes I think I'm pretty. 

 

 

not today.  *hangs head*

What guys really want is Karen Carpenter with Pam Anderson's boobs, J-Lo's ass, and Liv Tyler's face.  But, that animal just doesn't exist.  So guys have to choose.

And you are pretty.  

The Lounge Seesaw swingin' with the boys in the Chat and your feet flyin' up in the air Apr 13 2012
14:19 (UTC)
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Original Post by tblover900:

Original Post by stevis78:

Original Post by sharpshootinstar:

Howdy Tb, Deb!

Steve, what do you mean by stigma?

Society sees skinny women as something to be admired, therefore I believe they're more catered towards in terms of clothing.

agreed.

 

but i think tall curvy girls have carved out a niche. After all, we are preferred by men.

*loves being an hourglass*

That's for sure.  Most guys I know, the skinnier, the better.  I like a little chunky, but that's me.

The Lounge Seesaw swingin' with the boys in the Chat and your feet flyin' up in the air Apr 13 2012
14:18 (UTC)
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Original Post by karijos:

Original Post by stevis78:

Original Post by karijos:

Original Post by stevis78:

Holy crap, my shoulder is still sore and I can hardly turn my head.  

Slow stretches under a hot shower....

or a another rub down to get your mind off it...................

I'm going to try that tonight when I take my shower.  I'm usually in and out of the shower so fast I don't give it time to stretch.  

Oh............I thought you were going to go for the rub down

That, too (of course).  A rub down is never a bad thing.

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