When I was a kid, I wasn't fat like those morbidly obese children you see on the Maury show. But I wasn't like those super skinny minnie children you see out there. I am 20 years old now and don't know my weight. I lost a lot of weight over the last year and wear a size 4/5 now. Anyways, I have an abusive grandmother who keeps saying that I'm a fat pig. And keeps saying that I'm worthless because I was never a skinny little girl. I was told that once you're a fat kid, you'll never amount to anything. In recent history, I been walking anywhere from 12 and 20 miles a day or biking up to 50 miles in hopes to lose more weight. I haven't had a period since December and my eye sight has become so messed up that I can't see too well anymore. I should be wearing glasses but I can't afford any right now. The only reason why I can see to read off the computer screen is because I fixed the text size to make it large enough. Since I was a fat kid, I feel like a committed the most unforgivable sin you can commit. I feel so hopeless and damned. Is there any hope at all for a former fat kid? Or is my life a waste since I was what I was?
Seek professional help to grow past this and get away from abusive family members. Fat has nothing to do with it, abusive people make things up to be abusive about.
I have on and off my life been verbally, emotionally and mentally abused by my step father and a couple ex-bosses. I have been called disgusting and stupid by my last boss and he was sexually harassing me, I broke down, contemplated suicide, lived in a depression for about 2 years and just now starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel.
People who are abusive can sense and find past victims or vulnerable people to abuse and that is why seeking professional help can be beneficial: 'break the cycle', build confidence and gain self esteem.
As for you actual question. YES! You are capable of doing anything/everything any other person can do but first you have to take care of the emotional/mental injuries that you have gone though.
plenty of people were fat kids and grew up to be perfectly functional sucessful adults.
if u cant afford glasses go to walmart or cvs and buy a pair of glasses for like $7.
as for not having a period. u r either overexcercising, undereating, or underweight.
u must stop this viscious cycle. NOW. go to a doctor. go to a free clinic, whatever. please get help.